Because what I have tragically found is that Christian singles hit an area of desperation, particularly young women, and they will go: “Yeah, he is a Christian, he comes to church.” And really what they’re saying is this guy comes to church a couple of times a month, but outside of attending a service, he doesn’t have a real seriousness about growing in his understanding of the Lord, growing in his understanding of the Bible, being a prayerful person, no vivication or mortification that can be spotted, and no one who really knows them enough to speak to the growth in their character.
podcast and answered ten questions on singleness and dating.
We get a lot of questions from young Christian men and women who are “not yet married.” Their season of life awakens many desires and hopes, uncertainties and insecurities, and tricky pastoral questions.
And while swiping through potential matches from the comfort of our phones was certainly exciting, less so was the waiting game that followed after you racked up your matches., wondered women everywhere.
Next came another downside: gross comments, sexual harassment, and yes—d*ck pics.
So some entrepreneurs decided to create dating apps that gave women more control over the process.
From hand-picking the men allowed on the site to keeping your profile pic hidden, these apps put the power in your hands: Bumble As you might remember from the article she wrote for us, the cofounder of Tinder, Whitney Wolfe, launched Bumble much in the same image as her former app, but with a twist.And so I think the church really serves and helps Christian singles consider marriage and consider dating.Within the covenant community of faith, there should be those around a person that can speak of their reputation and whether they are serious about growing in the Lord and putting sin to death in their life. Is there seriousness in this person to grow in their relationship and understanding with the Lord?This is one of those head-scratchers that goes back as long as written history.When dating apps first launched, it was a brave new world.Instead of waiting for your match to make the first move, Bumble makes it mandatory that women initiate conversation after matching, giving them only a 24-hour window as incentive.