See, sex, the basic, most fundamental romantic interaction between a man and a woman, is an inherently “dirty” act.
You may be doing your absolute best in a relationship as far as being giving, honest and generous, and then you will be shocked to find out that your relationship partner is losing interest in you and wants out.
This doesn’t make any sense to you on a surface, as you expect your partner to appreciate and give you as much back as you give to them. It does not work like business, and you cannot expect the same reciprocity and fairness.
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Take your time to get to know him before you start being all about him and his needs.
It’s fine to be intrigued — like you’re on the verge of being interested — but don’t let yourself get totally sold too fast.While I agree that guys who are too nice with women will most often lose a woman’s interest very quickly, I am also not a big fan of this whole idea of being a “challenge” with women like some sources of dating advice suggest you should follow.I never advocate waiting for 7 days or longer before you call or text a woman after you got her number, or making yourself “artificially” and purposely more busy and less available than you should be.Take my latest relationship, for instance, I started “duty dating” this man and eventually we went out for 8 months.For two months, I really wasn’t that into him, and for those two months he was very sweet to me, went out of his way to please me, compromised for the relationship and was very considerate of what was important to me.They’re just wired that way — To be clear, this doesn’t mean you should be a bitch or play hard to get or change who you are as a person.