I mean you just need to take a look at teenagers to see how they become clones of their favourite rappers, movie stars, singers etc to see how influential the media is on what is the social norm. 3) He is boring, unadventurous, unmasculine, feminine even, and probably doesn’t like to have sex. I ask how many people who comment on the size or love making ability of Asian men/women have actually been with one? Why are there stereo types of black men, latino men, all type of men in movies generally which are negative?With that in mind, have you noticed the negative images constantly and consistently been dished out at the expense of Asian guys? 4) This is a big one, not only is he not apparantly able to get laid and always gets turned down by chicks but quite likely he might be non sexual all together NO libido, or don’t even know how to use it. Do you know even someone as hot, talanted and handsome as Jet Li had an (I’m sure very beautiful) scene with Aaliyah kissing which was CUT from the final edit, like many other scenes in movies with Asian guys actually getting on with beautiful girls. Well, to make the white man on top feel like he is the conqueror, the most elite of the lovers in the animal kingdom.I mean I can’t even be bothered to give actual more examples of how Asian men are pretty much shunned in every single movie there is.
Hi Everyone Lately there was a big hoohaa over the internet about the girl who posted quite negative things about dating Chinese men just after one blind date with a Chinese guy, so my darling friend and favourite blogger Jocelyn over at Speaking of China urged all girls who have experience to share their stories too, to show other versions and experiences with the following in mind: So before we get into my person experience with dating a Chinese man, lets get some facts straight.
First of all, I think many would agree that the media heavily influences the status quo. 2) He is a nerd, super smart, scary smart and probably has glasses coz that’s what smart people wear. How can even stigmatize a whole race based on these bullshit lies???
I am just trying to gain a general feel for the consensus on these topics these days from Chinese women and men and anyone who has had experience with Chinese in these areas. (oh, it is for my own knowledge--I'm married to a Chinese man who's in China but I'll get into that later)!
I'm trying to gage my expectations realistically against what I feel is right :) I am really looking for Chinese mens' views from China -- (rather than Americanized views)...
Only, he made me wait outside while he went in to get them. I don’t know what country you’re from, but Chinese culture is a bit different than most Western cultures.
And he told me to stand a little away from the door so no one would see me accidentally. He talks about his co-workers all the time and they seem really close. Dating Chinese guys is new to me, but this has never happened to me before. This definitely has an impact when you’re dating Chinese guys.I would like to get some feedback on Chinese mens' view of Love, relationship role in marriage.I understand this might sound like I'm generalizing...That way, if you break up soon, no harm done and no face lost.(You know China is very big on face.) The fact that he isn’t running around showing you off means he is serious.This is what people think, since not many people even mix outside of their own culture to find out what the truth really is anyway.